163. What Story Are You Telling?

Welcome to 100 Ways. This is your daily exploration of Self and Soul. I'm your host and fellow explorer, Laura Christine, let's dive in and find our way home. Do you remember episode 1 37 where I said. This is your game. you get to make up the rules. If you don't remember that episode, go back and listen to it. It's 1 37. And we can relate that to this. And this concept, this idea. What story are you telling? Okay, this is your game. You actually get to write the rules. And then you get to tell the story of your life. The way you want to tell it. What story. Are you telling. One, what story are you telling and to do you need to be telling this story? This is coming up for me. I almost don't want to share this process because I'm ready to stop telling the story. When I speak it right now, it's like, okay, well, I guess I'll tell it one more time. I don't want to be attached to keeping the story because it's just no longer my story. Here it is though I had had this pattern where. I would spend time with people, especially men who I really enjoy hanging out with and really love. But. I could feel this almost pulling sensation. Where. I wanted to hang out with them to get something. To get attention or something. it's energetic. So it's very difficult to explain. In words. However words are energy too. I know. However. It's that knowing. Where your home is. Uh, knowing when you've shifted away from home. Today I had the opportunity to go hang out with a couple of men. I love. I decided that I would rather not do that. Not because I didn't want to see them and hang out with them. But because it felt more right to do something else today. And I thought, you know what? This can wait. They can wait. If they want to hang out with me. One thank you for the invitation. That's a step forward. Rather than me always being the one to reach out and want to hang out. But my no. My note is so. Integrated. It is a real, no. Because even though I would love, do you have been there? I needed to be here today. This was a story that I don't even need to be telling, Ooh, this shift happened where I usually go hang out with men that I really like, and I want them to like me in some way, shape or form and give me attention in some way, shape or form. But instead I decided not to, because I felt more at home not doing that. Yay. Yay. And I get it. It's a process and we need to go through these steps and speak it here and there and everywhere. But. There comes a point in time when you've told the story. And it's no longer necessary for it to be a story. Every single time. You open your mouth or every single time. You are going to talk about something. Ask yourself. Have I told this story before? And do I want to tell it again? Because if you have told the story before and you tell it now, Chances are very high that you're going to tell it again. And our lives are the stories we tell. our lives are made up of the stories we tell. This was a story that you will not hear me speak about again. Because it's no longer my story. I'm here. Because I wanted to do some witch and kitchen stuff today. And go to a taro circle today. Rather than hang out with people that I also love. But felt like if I did that, It would be because I wanted some kind of attention. And that didn't feel good to me. Also, I will see. Both of these men again. And we are friends. What story are you telling? This is your life. You get to tell the stories. Ask yourself. If you want to continue telling the stories or not. If you don't. Literally don't tell. That story. It's simple. Easy. To be determined, but it is simple. Support the show@buymeacoffee.com slash 1 0 0 ways. Thank you so much for your support. And until next time i'm sending all the love and then some more we'll talk tomorrow Thank you for exploring with me today. I would love to continue this conversation with you. We can do that at Laura Christine, us. You'll find contact in the menu, or you can go to Laura Christine us slash contact, and you'll be taken right to it. Let's dive in a little deeper and see how fully we can flow with the duh.