195. Can Love Really Heal the World? {with Sam}

I don't know if love can really heal the world. And that wasn't the question that we were asking. But our continuous questions and laughter Let us to it. I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope you share your thoughts with us afterwards. Most importantly, I hope you keep laughing along with us because life is not that big a deal, and we want to keep it flowing. I love how you brought it back to authenticity. It's the most important thing. I agree. 100% because we're the only things we are the only entities. That I know of. That engage in inauthentic behavior and actions. nothing else does. There's no other animal. That we know of that does certainly stars. Don't do that shit. And it's don't do that crap. No. So just set yourself free. Be authentic. Yeah. So free, be authentic. And fuck up along the way. Yeah. Because there's no way not to. Certainly there's no, I'm not saying like, excuse anything you ever did. That was a mistake. But. go easy. Oh, easy on yourself, yeah, you'll make some big mistakes. You'll carry those scars forever. We all do. But don't sweat the small stuff. Yeah, cause you will turn 40 someday and you'll realize it's really, if there's anybody under the age of 40 listening to this podcast, bless you. Thank you so much. I really appreciate that. You heard my words. I don't even think kids listen to podcasts anymore. It's just like Tik TOK videos. We should just be making Tik TOK videos. No. A thousand Tik TOK videos. No. No, no, I've never, I don't do tech. Do you like. To answer routines. What I said, do you like to answer to you? I liked it. Know what. No. But I don't even know what you're talking. Cause that's what the kids do on the tick tock. They do the dances, you know, Oh, she's old. It's so good. That's fair. And true. So it's very fair. So authentic. Okay. I We should wrap this one up. So. Uh, yeah, well, Logic. I don't think we really decided, but they're not. The truly exclusive is they're not mutually exclusive and it's hard to navigate. Through all of the different. Iterations of love. Yeah. It's just almost too many. Unless you're talking about the love that. Everything Springs from. That single single source love. Yeah. The route. Yeah. I heard about it two, three times. Sure. There's. Like that universal constant. Yeah. Of love. Like, no matter how bad you fuck up, you're still love. I mean, love created everything. 10 somebody. Fuck up bad enough that they are irredeemable. I mean, we just totally changed the subject. But that's what we do here. I think so. And it's irredeemable because all the other people are also imperfect. And They're incapable. They will be incapable. Of. Moving past whatever you did. To find some place where you are redeemable. I do think that, every thing that people do, that's horrible, like every horrible action that anyone has ever undertaken. Is because something horrible happened to them. I know that sociopath's exist. People are born who have zero empathy. They are very rare. As like a genetic condition. And most of the sociopathic behaviors that we see in people are. Trauma responses. From something that bad that happened to them. In the cycle continues. So at some point, you know, if we work hard enough, we engage in love. Enough. And we forgive people enough. And we provide a safe place for people enough. That stuff will go away because the cycle will get broken. And you don't have those things. Those people won't exist anymore. You won't have rapists. You won't have murderers. You won't have pedos. They just won't exist because they exist due to trauma. That's been perpetrated upon them. that's the hard part for people to say. It's really hard to forgive somebody that raped your kid. Yeah. To be like extra heavy, but that's not something that you could ever expect somebody to do. No. No. No you murder that person. That's what you do. That's what you do to those people. That breaks the cycle. They can't do it anymore. They can't continue the rehab. So there's some logic there too. Yeah, even though it's really brutal. But that's where we came from. Let's look what we're growing up. Yeah, childhoods So to speak, you know, like we have to grow up now, if we don't. We're not going to get an old age. But it just won't be anymore. Which will break the cycle. It's fine too. Yeah. There's no right answers, right? There's no, there's no right or wrong. It's all. No. I feel even that there are no real answers. There's just more questions. Yeah. Yeah. That's why we have so many podcasts out there. Lots of curious people. Asking questions. Looking for answers, but they just keep coming up with more questions to ask. all those questions also like. I get asked in a cycle too. Yeah. Right. You know, like so many of these questions we're asking today have already been. Philosophize Don. Many times in the past. So. I don't know that we ever really come up with different answers either. I don't think so. We just reaffirmed the ones that were already there. Yeah. It's almost like there's something underneath. That's generating everything. And that one constant. That is going to be. Methane. It's nothing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You got it. That's the answer. It's not 42. That's nothing. It's me. Yeah, you're 42 now. Leah. Thank goodness. And that's the most authentic thing you'll hear all night. My conclusion is that. The most loving thing. Any of us can do. As be authentic. I believe that love gives us the ability to be authentic. I believe that authenticity. Brings us home to ourselves. And all roads. Lead to home. Because all roads. Tell you whether or not you're being authentic. And if you're not. You know what to do. You may or may not do it, but eventually we're all going to come home to ourselves in our full authenticity. It takes practice. A lot of laughter. And I think you need to be at least 40. What are your thoughts? Got to buy me a coffee.com/ 1 0 0 ways you can book a session. And support the show you can donate monthly or one time. Everything is so appreciated. Be. Aand belief. I can't even explain how much I appreciate each one of you. And any contribution I have received is just it's like I was given the moon. And that's pretty cool. Until next time. We are sending all the love. And authenticity. And then some more. We'll talk tomorrow.